Full Compat with Paper and Spigot & Some more Gamerules

Before I move on to updating to 1.21.9 I wanted to make one final update to ensure that paper and spigot were also on the same level of polish as neoforge and fabric so I've added their missing gamerules:

O = Already added in a previous version

X = Added this version

GameRule	Paper	Spigot
doesRespawnAnchorDamage	O	X
doesBedDamage	O	X
doesDragonGrief	X	X
doesDragonDamage	X	X

For everyone else:

I also wanted to add a few more simple gamerules to help flesh out the project a bit more:

GameRule	Fabric	Paper	Spigot	NeoForge
doLeavesDecay	X	X	X	X
doPhantomsSpawn	X	X	X	X
doesFireDamage	X	X	X	X
doEnderPearlsDamage	X	X	X	X
doesPlayersDrown	X	X	X	X
doPetFriendlyFire	X	X	X	X